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The Evil and Secretly Desperate Hopelessness of the Panic Over Aging and Sex

Lakshmi Chaundry, reviewing Sex and the Seasoned Woman: Pursuing the Passionate Life by Gail Sheehy: “The book can be silly, earnest and often insightful in turns, but Sheehy's downright scary when it comes to menopause, which she frames as an affliction to be fought by all medical means necessary. It's where she crosses the line between affirming the sexual needs of older women and insisting that they must have sex—lots of it—irrespective of their physical or personal inclinations. While Sheehy throws in some platitudes about platonic soul connections, she spends more time scolding married women who've lost interest in doing the deed.”

James G. Poulos comments on the article: “Chaudry is merely suggesting that the natural course of human life ought not be overthrown by the ideological enforcement of psychological and somatic scientific "remedies." "I think we can beat this thing called death," say the denizens of Posthuman Science. And on the way? Beating sexual death, of course, the worse kind. That Chaudry -- who has written for Ms., The Village Voice, Mother Jones, and Bitch, and co-authored The Five Biggest Lies Bush Told Us about Iraq -- grasps the evil and secretly desperate hopelessness of the panic over aging and sex gives a glimmer of hope: that sane people of otherwise ardent difference can muster the rock-bottom appreciation for the fixed structures of civilizational order that will prevent our culture from continuing to lose its mind.”

"Schrödinger, Curie, Einstein, Feynman, Oppenheimer [...] form a roster of lamentable philanderers."
"Yet today, while physicists still spend day and night chasing nature, the era of chasing skirts — or knickers—seems to have passed."
Vancouver Web 2.0 Forum profiles Steffani Cameron
She's a Vancouverite with a sex weblog titled "The Cunning Linguist".
Interesting Ask MetaFilter discussion about being a 30-year-old virgin
Skip directly to the comment by 'scody' if you want the best 'answer'.
A taxonomy of monogamy
I claim trademark/copyright/patent on the portmanteau taxogamy.
Dave Pollard on what we can learn from the bonobo monkeys
Frequent sex for pleasure but also to calm nerves and avoid conflict.
Scooter Libby's 1996 novel
It "tells the tale of Setsuo, a courageous virgin innkeeper who finds himself on the brink of love and war." Some Republicans have strange sex fantasies.
Tips on having sex underwater
Mostly from the female perspective.

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