IM

Acronym for instant messaging.

Skype technical woes makes it *not* a mission critical IM application
I've missed important messages because of the way it handles "offline" messages. (Not to mention it's running on a closed protocol.)
People on IM write like they speak i.e. informally, study finds
Strong work from the scientific journal DUH.
"She frickin' blocked me / la la la la"
"she told me she was taking a shower / and she'd be back in a half hour / but she pulled one over on me / WTF, OFMG"

The Urge To Pop In

Suw, referring to her IRC client of choice: “Have you any idea how hard it is not to open Hydra? I mean, I currently live alone, in a village in the arseendofnowhere. Sad or otherwise, my online life is my life. The urge just to pop in and say 'hi!' is almost unbearable. But IRC is interfering with getting work done, so it's got to take a back seat for a while.”

I'd love to say I've been trying to cut down on IRC or online-time as well, but fortuitiously, it has been "just happening" lately. Having a pool in my apartment complex, extra shifts at work, meetings, a trip to Seattle this Thursday, a conference this weekend (I'll be one of very few people taking notes with a pen and paper, as the conference is ultra-geeky and I have no laptop), and the other things I'm neglecting (yes, neglecting, that'll do nicely) to mention. It helps that I live in a city, rather than the village of arseendofnowhere as Suw so eloquently puts it. But I'm sure she understands and is most likely grateful for the fact that the Internet connects people who may not necessarily be currently living in urban centres, or who may be living several time zones from where many of her friends live.

I've met far more people through the Internet than through what is still the mainstream way of meeting people, which is through offline contacts. Increasingly, meeting online first then meeting in the flesh is becoming mainstream, and I couldn't be happier.

The Value of Instant Messaging

Zimran Ahmed: “most of the value I get from IM is the little green lights letting me know my friends are just a click away.”

Michael Barrish: “E said that her instant messaging program lets her know when J’s computer has been idle more than a certain number of minutes, this being information she uses in her speculations about whether J is talking to, emailing, or having sex with the other woman.”

IM Absence

I won't be on IM for at least the weekdays of this week. My grumpiness coupled with my ability to exploit said grumpiness on this weblog for your schadenfreude are the reasons for the absence. Email remains an excellent way to get a hold of me. The answer as to why I'm grumpy can be found in the penultimate paragraph of the previous entry.

Update 11:35 PM: Apparently, according to a Reuters report, “[f]lirting with colleagues, scheming against the boss and gossiping about co-workers are among the most common Instant Messenger, or IM, missives circulating around the office”. I don't use IM at work, but some people do, and it's rather funny to hear them complain about their co-workers or their job, almost as if there was something I could do about it.

IM Augments Conversation?

How IM Augments Conversation

Caterina and I will also IM, even when we are laying on the same bed with laptops open. Part of this is because it is OK to not answer an IM until you are ready—a pause of 30 seconds is perfectly acceptable where it wouldn’t be in voice (and the answerer doesn’t even have to hold the question in their mind while doing something else, but can refer back to it later).

Only recently did I have the chance to try chatting with someone online while physically in the same room, and it was with IRC. It was pretty silly though, and I'm not sure if I could do it often.

Don't get me wrong though. IM is kinda cool for conversations that require Internet research. More than a dozen times I've backed up what I say with a URL or two. But having grown up with it, I still prefer email. With email, there's no obligation to reply instantly, or even the same day.