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The New York Times profiles Vancouver's Markus Frind, owner of Plenty of Fish →

The New York Times profiles Vancouver's Markus Frind, owner of Plenty of Fish

"On average, he puts in about a 10-hour workweek."

tags: Vancouver, dating, online dating, via:tyfn | # | comment Jan. 13th, 2008

I'm Tired of Facebook Thinking That I'm Tired of Being Single, Especially When It Knows I'm Not Single!

Facebook, as many people know, is a social networking site for keeping in touch with the people you know, and for sharing things with those people. I've found that it strengthens the weak bonds I've had with people I've met a few times and gotten to know, and has re-united me with people from my past whom I regretted not keeping in touch with. There are still people who haven't joined—I should just send them an email—but for those that have I've found things out about some of them that I really should have known anyway (including a pregnancy) and some I don't want to know much about (relationship details).

Ad in my Facebook feed asking if I'm tired of being single

The above ad sometimes appears in my Facebook News Feed. It's fairly clearly marked as a sponsored ad, and while a little too close to looking like information about my friends for comfort (and why on Earth would I want to share an ad I didn't seek out?), the site has to make a dollar, and they do that through advertising. I see a problem with this, however: why can't the above ad have at least something to do what it knows about me? Facebook seems not to be aware of the fact that I'm in a relationship, something I explicitly told the site! It's a little shocking that here are in 2007 with contextual ads being all the rage and the website that has the most personal in both qualitative and quantitative can't figure out my status. I'm tired of Facebook thinking that I'm tired of being single, especially when it knows I'm not single!

tags: Facebook, Lavalife, dating, online dating

Reader responses to Jonathan Rauch's question "are introverts better off pairing up with extroverts or with fellow introverts?" →

Reader responses to Jonathan Rauch's question "are introverts better off pairing up with extroverts or with fellow introverts?"

tags: Jonathan Rauch, dating, extroverts, introverts | # | comment Mar. 1st, 2007

Jen will participate in the Northern Voice session on relationships and blogging →

Jen will participate in the Northern Voice session on relationships and blogging

tags: Northern Voice, blogging, dating | # | comment Jan. 13th, 2006

Jeffrey Simpson about the his (successful) Craigslist personal ad →

Jeffrey Simpson about the his (successful) Craigslist personal ad

"It feels odd to have a girlfriend and in a rather quick manner."

tags: craigslist, dating | # | comment Jan. 12th, 2006

There's No Social Protocol or Precedent For It

Al3x: “The dating world doesn't need another personals site embracing blogs. Rather, "blog dates" like the one my friend is looking forward to should become commonplace. Right now, asking out a blogger you admire is sort of a stalkerish thing to do, but that's largely because there's no social protocol or precedent for it. Hopefully that will change.”

tag: dating

Craigslist got Jeffery Simpson a girlfriend →

Craigslist got Jeffery Simpson a girlfriend

This Internet dating thing might just catch on.

tags: Vancouver, craigslist, dating | # | comment Jan. 7th, 2006

CNET buys Consumating (and Ben Brown gets a paycheck) →

CNET buys Consumating (and Ben Brown gets a paycheck)

My weblog was my online dating site (sort of), but it's always good to see something that encourages nerds to meet each other get funding.

tags: Web 2.0, cnet, consumating, dating | # | comment Dec. 7th, 2005

ABC's Hooking Up, a show about women in online dating →

ABC's Hooking Up, a show about women in online dating

Multiple episodes, evidently.

tags: ABC, dating, online dating | # | comment Jul. 14th, 2005

The Jackassery, the Low Self-Confidence, the Baggage, the Complete Lack of Skill in Bed

Jen: “What is the Turnaround Girl™ you ask? She’s the one who is a really fantastic catch herself, and seems to end up with nothing but idiots. This is because of her innate ability to make her partner feel fabulous about himself, and in return, he turns into a fully datable member of the male species.”

tag: dating

The best breakup line →

Dan's line actually sucks: I would say something like "This isn't working out, but here's cab fare" (the second phrase only if she doesn't have her own transportation, of course).

tags: dating, dead link | # | comment Jun. 8th, 2005

How to avoid the exhausting planning and preparation that goes into making a second date →

How to avoid the exhausting planning and preparation that goes into making a second date

tag: dating | # | comment Jun. 7th, 2005

The Single Guy's Guide to Sleeping with Unattractive Women →

The Single Guy's Guide to Sleeping with Unattractive Women

"Unattractive Women's Guide to Why Single Guys Sleep With Them" would be a more accurate title.

tags: dating, sex | # | comment Jun. 7th, 2005

Dating service in China for celibate people →

Dating service in China for celibate people

Doesn't that defeat the purpose?

tags: China, celibacy, dating, sex | # | comment May. 16th, 2005

Laren on being set up for a date with someone →

Laren on being set up for a date with someone

She appreciates that her coupled friends think of setting her up, but doesn't like the lack of follow-through. (Same here, especially the ones I've explicitly asked to set me up with someone.)

tag: dating | # | comment Apr. 30th, 2005

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